Saturday, June 8, 2013

Facebook - to stay or not to stay. . .

So, as I have alluded to, I do not like comparing my life with others. I have, upon checking FB, found myself coveting other people's relationships.  I have wasted lots of time learning things about people that I really did not need or want to know.
     Important to this deliberation is the fact that my hard drive crashed maybe a week ago? Honestly, I don't exactly remember when it happened.  I did not find myself lamenting my dear FB.  I did find myself working on projects I have started years ago and not finished, as well as repairing things that were broken. I found myself writing in my journal about the blessings God was giving me daily, which I had stopped doing.
    Crazily enough, in the same span of time our washing machine broke, I started my first week off of happy pills, and my 3 year old daughter decided to stop taking naps. I tell you, our house has been getting cleaner than it has been in a long time.
  But, I don't want to be an over-sharer. The point I am trying to make, is when I spend less time on Facebook I spend more time actually living my life more fully rather than coveting things/relationships in the lives of others.
   Don't get me wrong - there is nothing like the cuteness of my dear friend Lisa's infant girl triplets and big sis in coordinating outfits.  I love her pictures and many others that bring me joy. But, the truth is that I would rather have a real phone conversation once a month with people in my life that I love rather than a daily dose of one liners and pictures.
   So, if I do depart FB as I have anticipated, I will make more effort to keep up with people far away in other ways.  And, Lord willing, they will too. 
Miss Margaret and Margaret Grace, Hendersonville, NC
Believe it or not, I still like writing old fashioned letters.